Finding Calm Amidst the Storm: How Mindfulness Can Ease Anxiety

Justin Stum • Aug 20, 2023

You can work through anxiety. It's possible.

Anxiety

Anxiety is when you feel really worried or scared about something, even if it might not be a big deal. It's like having a strong feeling that something bad might happen, even if there's no real danger. Your heart might beat faster, you could feel shaky or nervous, and your mind might keep thinking about things that make you anxious. It's important to know that everyone feels anxious sometimes, but if it's making you uncomfortable or stopping you from doing things you want to do, you can talk to someone you trust, like a family member or a teacher, to get help.


Dealing with anxiety can be difficult because it can make you feel like something bad is going to happen, even if it's not true. It's like having a noisy and worried voice in your head that won't stop. This can make your body feel off, like your heart racing or your stomach getting upset. Sometimes, it's tough to do regular things or relax because anxiety keeps bothering you. It's like having an unwanted guest that won't leave your thoughts. But remember, just like you can ask for help when you have a problem, you can also ask for help with anxiety, and there are ways to make it feel better.


What can you do this week to start dealing with anxious thinking and feeling?


Mindfulness Practice


Mindfulness is a mental practice of deliberately focusing your awareness on the present moment without judgment. It involves observing your thoughts, feelings, bodily sensations, and the environment around you with an attitude of curiosity and acceptance. This practice encourages you to let go of distractions from the past or worries about the future, allowing you to fully engage in the here and now. Through mindfulness, you develop a greater understanding of your thoughts and emotions, and it can help you manage stress, anxiety, and other challenges by promoting a sense of calm, clarity, and self-awareness.


Mindfulness exercises can be highly effective in reducing anxiety by promoting present-moment awareness and helping you manage your thoughts and emotions. Here are some mindfulness exercises you can try.


Actionable Healing Tasks


Deep Breathing: Find a quiet space, sit or lie down comfortably, and focus on your breath. Inhale deeply through your nose for a count of four, hold for a count of four, and exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of six. Repeat this several times, concentrating solely on your breath.


Body Scan: Lie down or sit comfortably. Close your eyes and bring your attention to different parts of your body, starting from your toes and moving up to your head. Notice any tension or sensations without judgment, and breathe into those areas to release tension.


Grounding Exercise: When feeling anxious, use your senses to ground yourself in the present moment. Identify and describe five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste.


Mindful Walking: Go for a walk, either indoors or outdoors. Pay close attention to each step, the sensations in your feet as they make contact with the ground, and the movement of your body. Notice the environment around you without getting lost in thoughts.


Mindful Eating: Choose a small piece of food, like a raisin or a nut. Examine it closely, noting its texture, color, and shape. Slowly take small bites, paying attention to the taste, smell, and sensation as you chew and swallow.


Loving-Kindness Meditation: Sit or lie down comfortably. Begin by directing feelings of love and compassion toward yourself, then extend those feelings to loved ones, acquaintances, and even people you may have conflicts with. Repeat phrases like "May I/you be happy, may I/you be healthy," etc.


5-4-3-2-1 Technique: Identify and name five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste. This technique helps to ground you in the present moment.


Visualization: Close your eyes and imagine a serene, peaceful place. Engage all your senses in this mental imagery, picturing the sights, sounds, smells, and even the sensations you'd experience in this tranquil environment.


Breath Counting: Focus your attention on your breath. Count each inhale and exhale cycle. If your mind wanders, gently bring your focus back to the count. This exercise helps to anchor your attention and prevent it from wandering into anxious thoughts.


Mindful Journaling: Write down your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Describe the sensations you're experiencing and explore the thoughts behind your anxiety. This practice can help you gain insights into your triggers and responses.


Try this 5-minute excellent guided mindful meditation. You'll be glad you did.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p7Rfz3M0hIo


Remember that consistency is key when practicing mindfulness exercises for anxiety reduction. Start with a few minutes each day and gradually increase the duration as you become more comfortable with the practice. It's important to approach these exercises with an open and non-judgmental attitude, as mindfulness is about observing without criticism. If your anxiety is severe or persistent, consider seeking guidance from a mental health professional.


In a world full of distractions and worries, practicing mindfulness can be a powerful tool in managing anxiety. By training ourselves to focus on the present moment without judgment, we can create a mental space that allows us to step away from the anxious thoughts that often dominate our minds. Mindfulness helps us observe our feelings and thoughts from a place of calmness and curiosity, rather than getting carried away by them. Over time, this practice can lead to a greater understanding of our anxiety triggers and patterns, enabling us to respond more skillfully and with a sense of control. Mindfulness serves as a bridge between our inner world and the external reality, helping us find a refuge of tranquility amidst the chaos of anxious thoughts.


If your efforts to manage anxiety on your own aren't yielding the results you're hoping for, seeking help from a professional can be incredibly beneficial. Sometimes, anxiety can become overwhelming and interfere with your daily life, making it challenging to engage in normal activities, maintain relationships, or concentrate on tasks. As a clinical team, we have the tools and time to help you and are trained to provide you with effective strategies and techniques tailored to your specific needs. We can guide you in understanding the root causes of your anxiety, offer tools to cope with it, and work with you to develop a personalized plan for improvement. Remember, seeking help isn't a sign of weakness; it's a proactive step towards gaining control over your anxiety and building a happier, healthier life. Reach out to us if you'd like to schedule an appointment, we can help.


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